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I do not know about you, but I always submitted glass and an eye on the feeling and faith. I like to think logically, act rationally and very often when emotions suggest me something to quickly put off the decision until later to have a chance to think about it cold. I am mainly thinking of negative emotions. For example, when some idiot pulls me the way and I want to bawl him out the window - but I count to ten in your mind, relax and realize that it not only will not work, but additionally soccer spoil my mood. That's what makes us different from other animals: intelligence developed enough and strong that it can pick up emotions control our actions. And although the total domination of these emotions is not advisable, proper psychopaths and destructive to our personal lives - in most areas, however, it is worth practicing. Especially when the actions are pushing us anger, jealousy soccer or revenge.
A wise man once made it clear to me that I'm stupid. I was 23 years old and I gave up sztampowo strollować in some online discussion. I tried to speak on the subject - and a girl began to insult and provoke me. He got her in a senseless, verbal scramble, I started losing anger and rage turned to Tom for advice. - What did you write now? Maybe she'll write that it is stupid and does not shave armpits? (In fact it was obviously something else, but now, in retrospect, that's how I rate the level of my idea ;)) - Mati, and take you tell me what you want to achieve the goal? - Well ... I want her to bite. - No, think again: what you want to achieve the goal? - Yyy .. I want to convince her that I'm right.
And then I realized that biting her not achieve this goal. The only thing I can achieve is screwing discussion, making someone upset or even bring to the point where my interlokutorka soccer starts me so much not to like, it is reset to the negative and what I'm trying to explain to her. I also understood that I really give a shit whether something convince her. The only thing I podpowiadały then the emotions, the defense and the attack in perpetual quarrel. A driving force of these emotions were wounded ego and obsessive need to be right. Divested of that age, but the same maturation is not enough. It should be a once in a while to ask this important question: what goal you want to achieve.
The reader wrote to me some time ago with the problem. He threw her guy. She asked what she could do, so he felt shitty. Jealous? Zwyzywać it fejsie? Sleep with his friend? Seg madam, please help. I wrote back to her: Woman, you get to think about what you really want to achieve. Whether your goal is the corruption of life to another human being - is making you be happy alone? Because if you see the relationship between the two, it's probably worth you She felt his moral backbone and checked if he is still out there somewhere.
We must be aware of the consequences of our actions. soccer If this reader has succeeded at making her guy to feel shitty, you probably would not give her the expected satisfaction (revenge does not taste so sweet). In addition, she would herself from his exa enemy and the people around would know that he is unstable emotionally crazy that you can not trust. So if its purpose is to "be happy", it should be looking for a new way for its implementation.
Materazzi and Zidane remember? If the caveman did not listen to stupid emotions, France would have a chance of winning the World Cup in digging coconut. Unfortunately, the guy has forgotten that he is an athlete and his goal is to win the match and decided soccer to attack the head of an opponent who don't he said. Mother offended. He called the girl. I do not know what the Italian had said, but whatever it was, was enough to eliminate soccer a dangerous opponent. Do not be Zidanami. Think about the time, which is your goal. Because maybe this temporary, emotional goal is simply unworthy of a thinking man. I may have a different, better, and more important, which is increasingly moving away from you.
For more than a year without cigarettes after 15 years of smoking. Let's :)
It took me a long time to not react like a child deprived of toys, but I know it was worth it. Although sometimes wanted to be answered as our interlocutor, I know it is worth it, because it puts us far above.
I already do not even want. This constant screwing up, getting angry and meditation